Configurable wait or retry result for resource readiness checking

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Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
Currently the native reconciler does only check for CRD status, but not for built in workload statuses like deployment, statefulset, daemonset.

Describe the solution you'd like to see
Ideally there should be a configurable strategy on how to deal with resource status checks.

• do not check for status (current behaviour)
• check for status and wait (blocks current routine)
• check for status and return retry result if not yet ready (avoids blocking, requires retries from the client)