In mmdet==3.3.0, resume the checkpoint to load the model and continue training. A stuck problem occurs

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Describe the bug
I tried to run off vitdet, and there was a pause, and then resume=True, and the video memory kept taking up 4g, and then the program froze

Reproduction

1. What command or script did you run?

mmcv=2.1.0; mmdet = 3.3.0, mmengine = 0.10.5; torch=2.1.0+cu118; 
启动命令是：
bash ./tools/dist_train.sh projects/ViTDet/configs/vitdet_mask-rcnn_vit-b-mae_lsj-100e.py 8

2. Did you make any modifications on the code or config? Did you understand what you have modified? No！
3. What dataset did you use? COCO

Environment

1. Please run python mmdet/utils/collect_env.py to collect necessary environment information and paste it here.

sys.platform: linux
Python: 3.8.16 (default, Jan 17 2023, 23:13:24) [GCC 11.2.0]
CUDA available: True
MUSA available: False
numpy_random_seed: 2147483648
GPU 0: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3090
CUDA_HOME: /usr/local/cuda
NVCC: Cuda compilation tools, release 11.1, V11.1.74
GCC: gcc (Ubuntu 7.5.0-3ubuntu1~18.04) 7.5.0
PyTorch: 1.13.1+cu116
PyTorch compiling details: PyTorch built with:
  - GCC 9.3
  - C++ Version: 201402
  - Intel(R) Math Kernel Library Version 2020.0.0 Product Build 20191122 for Intel(R) 64 architecture applications
  - Intel(R) MKL-DNN v2.6.0 (Git Hash 52b5f107dd9cf10910aaa19cb47f3abf9b349815)
  - OpenMP 201511 (a.k.a. OpenMP 4.5)
  - LAPACK is enabled (usually provided by MKL)
  - NNPACK is enabled
  - CPU capability usage: AVX2
  - CUDA Runtime 11.6
  - NVCC architecture flags: -gencode;arch=compute_37,code=sm_37;-gencode;arch=compute_50,code=sm_50;-gencode;arch=compute_60,code=sm_60;-gencode;arch=compute_70,code=sm_70;-gencode;arch=compute_75,code=sm_75;-gencode;arch=compute_80,code=sm_80;-gencode;arch=compute_86,code=sm_86
  - CuDNN 8.3.2  (built against CUDA 11.5)
  - Magma 2.6.1
  - Build settings: BLAS_INFO=mkl, BUILD_TYPE=Release, CUDA_VERSION=11.6, CUDNN_VERSION=8.3.2, CXX_COMPILER=/opt/rh/devtoolset-9/root/usr/bin/c++, CXX_FLAGS= -fabi-version=11 -Wno-deprecated -fvisibility-inlines-hidden -DUSE_PTHREADPOOL -fopenmp -DNDEBUG -DUSE_KINETO -DUSE_FBGEMM -DUSE_QNNPACK -DUSE_PYTORCH_QNNPACK -DUSE_XNNPACK -DSYMBOLICATE_MOBILE_DEBUG_HANDLE -DEDGE_PROFILER_USE_KINETO -O2 -fPIC -Wno-narrowing -Wall -Wextra -Werror=return-type -Werror=non-virtual-dtor -Wno-missing-field-initializers -Wno-type-limits -Wno-array-bounds -Wno-unknown-pragmas -Wunused-local-typedefs -Wno-unused-parameter -Wno-unused-function -Wno-unused-result -Wno-strict-overflow -Wno-strict-aliasing -Wno-error=deprecated-declarations -Wno-stringop-overflow -Wno-psabi -Wno-error=pedantic -Wno-error=redundant-decls -Wno-error=old-style-cast -fdiagnostics-color=always -faligned-new -Wno-unused-but-set-variable -Wno-maybe-uninitialized -fno-math-errno -fno-trapping-math -Werror=format -Werror=cast-function-type -Wno-stringop-overflow, LAPACK_INFO=mkl, PERF_WITH_AVX=1, PERF_WITH_AVX2=1, PERF_WITH_AVX512=1, TORCH_VERSION=1.13.1, USE_CUDA=ON, USE_CUDNN=ON, USE_EXCEPTION_PTR=1, USE_GFLAGS=OFF, USE_GLOG=OFF, USE_MKL=ON, USE_MKLDNN=ON, USE_MPI=OFF, USE_NCCL=ON, USE_NNPACK=ON, USE_OPENMP=ON, USE_ROCM=OFF, 

TorchVision: 0.14.1+cu116
OpenCV: 4.5.5
MMEngine: 0.10.3
MMDetection: 3.3.0+