[minor BUG] Different OpenSSL names for TLS 1.3 ciphers LibreSSL v OpenSSL

[drwetter]

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3.2

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Command line / docker command to reproduce
just running a client check e.g. . Happens on a Mac, e.g. when using /usr/bin/openssl (=LibreSSL)

Observed behavior
The output depends on the Open/LibreSSL version and thus seems inconsistent:

Expected behavior
The output should be reproducible and independent on the Open/LibreSSL version.

Since LibreSSL 3.1.0 TLS 1.3 is supported and it's using a different openssl naming scheme for TLS 1.3 ciphers, see #1599 (@dcooper16 ).

If we rename the AEAD-* ciphers let's discuss where in the code we rename the ciphers.