Finally find the solution:

Step 1

install @timfish/forge-externals-plugin npm i -D @timfish/forge-externals-plugin

Step 2 add config to webpack.main.config.ts

{
    externals: {
        sqlite3: 'commonjs2 sqlite3'
    }
}

Step 3 add config to forge.config.ts

{
    plugins: [
        ... other plugins
        {
            name: "@timfish/forge-externals-plugin",
            config: {
                "externals": ["sqlite3"],
                "includeDeps": true
            }
        }
    ]
}