[AppKitBackend] Fix VStack and HStack layout

[stackotter]

VStack and HStack are the building blocks of basically all layouts, so it's very obvious when they don't have very sensible default layouts.

I've run GreetingGeneratorExample with SwiftCrossUI's AppKitBackend, and run an equivalent app built with SwiftUI. Some of the differences in layout are due to padding not being implemented for AppKitBackend yet, but the major differences are due to VStack having terrible automatic layout.

Since SwiftCrossUI expands the root view to fill the window (to make NavigationSplitView work properly), the NSStackView that represents the root VStack is constrained to fill the window. This would be fine except that stack views seem to want to use all available space for laying out their children instead of maintaining a consistent constant spacing between views (e.g. 8 pixels). This still occurs even when the children all get their 'gravity' set to center (which I assumed would make the stack view lay them out closely together and centered at the center). I've looked around for a property to achieve the desired behaviour, to no avail.

I reckon we should implement our own NSStackView from scratch (which essentially just involves writing code to correctly set up constraints between children of the stack). This would both help solve this specific problem and give us the flexibility to fine tune stuff in the future.

SwiftCrossUI (at time of writing)

SwiftUI

Once the history list appears, it fills the remaining space because it's a ScrollView. SwiftCrossUI gets that part right.